In America, the only discussions allowed about money are FRUGALITY and GUILT.
Our favorite thing is to see someone become incredibly wealthy...
...but spend like they have no money.
Like Warren Buffett, billionaire investor, who still lives in his 1958 house in Omaha. (We'll just ignore the fact that he has a private jet.)
Or the millionaire who still flies economy. How down to earth! (We'll just ignore his $9,000 suit.)
People love to quote The Millionaire Next Door, which showed how surprisingly modest millionaires truly are (for example, they tend to drive older cars).
That was great, but people twisted the findings to support their worldview — the one that says the most virtuous people are multi-millionaires who choose to live like they're poor.
Guys, your neighborhood millionaire is not living like a pauper, eating rice and beans and hoarding 95% of their income for some far-off day in retirement. Don't lie to yourself.
No, most millionaires don't walk around wearing chinchilla coats. But they're also not only wearing cheap pants and eating at Chili's.
"Money changes people..."
OF COURSE IT DOES
Does money change people? YES. AND IT SHOULD!
The truth is, money enables you to live a Rich Life — one that's bigger than you ever dreamed.
Instead of judging the wealthy, it's far more productive to ask — what do they DO differently? What do they spend on? And, most important of all, how do they think differently?
So that's exactly what I did.
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First, I started at the heart of the matter — identifying and overcoming invisible money scripts. You can't be successful if your "financial programming" is sabotaging you every step of the way.
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Then I expanded into more advanced topics on how the wealthy think. How do they build their wealth, how do they make money decisions and how do they think about spending money without all the guilt and baggage and confusion that plagues most people?
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And finally, how to put it into action to design your own Rich Life.
Now, I want to share all of it with you.
Back in 2009, when I wrote the first edition of my book, I forgot to include details about psychology. I provided tons of tactics, but what I discovered was that until you master the deep money psychology, the tactics won't help.
Since then, I've updated my book with psychology and invisible scripts about money. And I've started talking about these taboo topics. Like prenups, which I discussed on the Tim Ferriss podcast. I want to shine a light on these secretive topics. (Maybe you'll get a prenup, maybe not — that's not the point. What's important is that we should talk about these things out loud.)
Today, I want to go even further.
I want to take you into the world of the wealthy. I want to peel back the veil and talk about things wealthy people won't talk about publicly. How they think about spending. Specific examples of abundance. Where they spend their time.
I want to share everything I've learned about unlocking your financial potential and building your own Rich Life.
I put everything I've learned into a course: Wealth Triggers.