Candidate,
This year will be over in 18 days! How do you feel? Are you looking forward to 2021?
As the year comes to a close, now is the time when people start thinking about New Year's resolutions. "Work out more!" "Get healthy!" "Start a business!"
It's become popular for people to make fun of New Year's resolutions ("I always give up by February! Why bother?"), but few people understand WHY they don't work.
The reason is simple: They're too broad.
When we have a goal like "Get healthy," we set ourselves up for failure because we don't know where to start.
I know because I used to do the same thing. Back when I was first growing my business, I was in the middle of writing my book and just feeling overwhelmed.
One of my friends asked me, "What's your number one goal?"
I told him, "I want to be a bestseller, but I also want to generate $X in revenue and I want to do this publicity and blah blah blah —" He cut me off and said, "Cut the BS. What's your number one goal?"
Again, I hedged. But he pushed me and forced me to get crisp. Finally, I said, "I want this book to be a New York Times bestseller."
There it was. We hate giving ourselves constraints because it feels limiting. It feels like we're giving something up, and that's exactly what it felt like in that moment.
However, it's also freeing at the same time. Once I actually said that I wanted to become a New York Times bestselling author out loud, it became crystal clear what I needed to do in order to achieve my goal. I focused all of my attention on those things.
And now years later, I Will Teach You To Be Rich has hit the bestseller list — MULTIPLE TIMES. In fact, it was a NYT monthly business bestseller for five months.