Candidate,
Who here knows someone who keeps complaining about being in bad relationships...but then keeps picking HORRIBLE PEOPLE OVER AND OVER?
You sit there, biting your nails and listening vacantly to yet another sob story about how there's "no good ones left" and on and on, and all you can think is...
What the hell is wrong with you??
1 bad dating experience is a fluke. 2 is a mistake. But after 3, it's you.
I think we all know someone like this. (Or if you live in NYC, you know 25+ loony-ass people like this.)
If you've tried to be a good friend, maybe you gently nudged them, saying things like, "Are you sure that's what you want?"
Real talk, people. If you wrote down the situation on paper, the answer is so obvious:
"He's unemployed. He lives with his mom. He quit college with 2 classes to spare. He wears the same shirt every day. And he treats you like shit."
ON PAPER: Horrible.
IN REAL LIFE: "You don't understand...we have something special" (vomit)
What is going on here?
What we ultimately find out is that INFORMATION ALONE DOESN'T CHANGE THEIR MIND.
It's not just about telling people the facts. They already "know" the right answer. But it's the barriers in their minds ("We have something special...I'll never find someone else like that..." etc etc) that hold us back from doing the right thing.
Unfortunately, some people never conquer those barriers. They go from bad relationship to bad relationship.
But for some, it just takes a gentle nudge. A powerful example. Or a one-time kick in the ass.
Then, everything changes.
You and I have talked about wanting MORE. I'll show you how to afford virtually any luxury in a few months time.